I'm Crushing

Infatuation is a powerful emotional experience that can completely alter how we view the world around us. It often manifests in intense, short-term attraction to someone, driven more by idealization than reality. In these moments, everything feels amplified–our thoughts, our actions, and even our perceptions of the other person.
"Infatuation may seem exhilarating, but it’s important to distinguish it from genuine love, which grows and deepens over time."
When we become infatuated, we tend to focus on specific qualities that seem extraordinary. This can lead to a distorted perception of the person we are drawn to, making them appear flawless. Understanding the signs of infatuation can help in processing these intense emotions more effectively.
- Increased preoccupation with thoughts of the person
- Elevated emotional highs and lows
- Unrealistic expectations and idealization
Recognizing the difference between infatuation and deeper, lasting feelings can be difficult. Here’s a quick comparison:
Infatuation | Love |
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Short-term and intense | Long-term and stable |
Based on attraction and admiration | Built on trust and respect |
Idealizes the person | Accepts imperfections |